2011 : Resolutions and all inclusives

I'm going to again bring attention to how much of a delinquent I am. I should be more than regular since I am on vacation, especially since I grumble about being bored every 5 - 10 minutes. Lord knows I have stuff to do but I'm too lazy to think of them. For instance, my room looks like an atomic bomb exploded in there and instead of flames and fumes, there were clothes and shoes and nail polish and perfume and accessories. I can't show you a picture cause I too shame. I will however show you an after picture...maybe...as soon as it gets cleaned. 


The prodigal daughter has returned!! I am back home in my lovely lovely Antigua! Can you believe I've almost been here a week and I have not been to the beach ONCE?! My friends and the weather suck balls eggs. I have however been to one of my old haunts places I frequented every so often. But that's about it party wise. I've been staying home and sleeping. And boy have I slept. In bed by 11 and so! And I did not wake up till midday I had to go to church . Anyways, since I've been home I've been bombarded with inquires as to whether I was going to this or that all inclusive. The first was Under the Mistletoe. I'm not going to lie. It did not appeal to me, whatsoever. I really didn't want to be bothered with the hassle of looking for something to wear, worrying bout my hair blah blah blah. I came home with the mindset that the first all inclusive I was going to was Nocturnal. And so my ass stayed home. What I noticed on facebook however was the amount of people griping, bitching, moaning and so on and so forth about people who spend their money going to an all inclusive. 


As one of the biggest advocates of clothes and shoes/food (reusables vs non reusables) I have to draw my allegiance away from the "Spending 100+ on a party is stupid" camp. Around the time of every all inclusive there is a group of people who bitch on facebook (you can put all the squiggly lines you want under facebook I WILL NOT capitalize it byeotch) saying "Oh they're wasting their money" (and other variations of this) and it also happens around Carnival time when it comes to mas. My question for all them people whinging about how people spend their own money is "Is it your facking money?"Did you work for 3 months, 3 years or however long to give these people this money only or them to squander (in your opinion) it on an activity that lasts a few hours? No? Well in that case....STFU! 


IT IS NOT YOUR FACKING MONEY. 


You did not break your back, sweat blood and tears, nor forgo all pleasurable activities for 6 months to give these people this money. These people worked (or stole) the money and they obviously have no qualms in spending it on a ticket/outfit/mas costume. So what if they have to live on bread and butter till they get their next pay cheque? They're happy! So what if they have to scrape and search and probably whore out to get next month's rent? It's their money and they're happy. As far as I'm concerned it's nobody's business as to what I do with MY money. I think people would be a lot more agreeable and a lot happier if they each just minded their own business and stop commenting on what other people do with their money. At the end of the day they are happy with their decision or at the time they are enjoying their event  (hunger is no joke - I would know). Maybe if you would stop bitching and go find something that you enjoy to do with your money  then you would be so happy you wouldn't have time to notice what other people do with their money. I'm a Carnival baby and I love me some all inclusives (well all you can drink). Yes, they count as non reusables but I have the memories and the time I've shared with my friends. Ok it's not your thing. Fine! That's great for you, but don't be on our cases for spending our money how we like. That would be like making fun of you for spending your money on a new laptop, or a new shoes or staying home and watching tv (LOSAAAARR) . At the end of the day, it makes no sense and the moral of the story is to mind ya own damn business. 


My second issue is the omnipresent New Year's Resolution. Every year (since at least 2005) I've made a resolution to stop cursing. I try every year and by 10 AM on January the 1st, I'm either cursing in my head, out loud or under my breath I quickly gave up. I really and truly respect people who make and stick to a resolution. The saying goes : Old habits die hard. There's never been a truer saying. What I think would work is if I set smaller goals for myself. Like cursing less instead of not cursing at all. (click here) 


WRONG. I tried that at the beginning of the year to no avail. I still curse more or less like a sailor. I will keep  trying though. If my child's first word is a curse I'm going to jump off the Empire State Building.  My second resolution is to stop shopping! I have a problem. I genuinely do. At first I thought I had an actual actual problem. like one that needed a psychiatrist and stuff buuuut, I did some research, and took a few evaluative test, with which I credit myself for being completely honest, and I do not have an actual actual problem. I just have a minor self control issue. As I mentioned in my previous post I tired to avoid places where I would buy stuff aaaand it worked, until I started to take advantage of online shopping. Any time I see free shipping I go batshit crazy. That's my new resolution. Well one of them. The easier one I think. 


Before I go, I do remember that I had promised in my last post that in my next post I would add a picture of my hair so far. It's all fuzzy, but my friend hooked me up :). She's got mad skills yo. So without further adieu...here's ma hurr!

Baci 


Nneka